This is a stupid thread this happens EVERY year at every school. Until they have signed in February they are never guaranteed.
I'm sorry but your post comes off extremely arrogant and condecending. People are different and everyones situation is different. If you look down upon "kids" who don't handle their situation how you think they should or like you did with whatever commitment you made at 17, then I feel truly bad for you as a person. Maybe I am reading into your post way too much but clearly you aren't happy with how Ross P. is handling his own business.
Sorry you feel that way. If you think it is arrogant to stick to your commitment, then I'll wear that badge. I have no problem with him taking his visits. I have a HUGE problem with him committing one place, then taking his visits. So yes, I am criticizing the way a 17 year old kid is handling his own business, because he's handing it wrong. Just because he's a kid doesn't shield him from responsibility from his actions.
If he wants to check out Stanford and Alabama fine, just call coach Ferentz on the phone and tell him you're withdrawing your commitment. I don't care how thinks are "usually done", what he's doing now is the wrong thing.
I'll repeat this is a STUPID thread and adds NO benefit.
Curious to know what benefits the non-stupid threads provide?I'll repeat this is a STUPID thread and adds NO benefit.
Sorry you feel that way. If you think it is arrogant to stick to your commitment, then I'll wear that badge. I have no problem with him taking his visits. I have a HUGE problem with him committing one place, then taking his visits. So yes, I am criticizing the way a 17 year old kid is handling his own business, because he's handing it wrong. Just because he's a kid doesn't shield him from responsibility from his actions.
If he wants to check out Stanford and Alabama fine, just call coach Ferentz on the phone and tell him you're withdrawing your commitment. I don't care how thinks are "usually done", what he's doing now is the wrong thing.
Sorry you feel that way. If you think it is arrogant to stick to your commitment, then I'll wear that badge. I have no problem with him taking his visits. I have a HUGE problem with him committing one place, then taking his visits. So yes, I am criticizing the way a 17 year old kid is handling his own business, because he's handing it wrong. Just because he's a kid doesn't shield him from responsibility from his actions.
If he wants to check out Stanford and Alabama fine, just call coach Ferentz on the phone and tell him you're withdrawing your commitment. I don't care how thinks are "usually done", what he's doing now is the wrong thing.
I suppose kids who struggle to make up their mind on what school they want to attend (I'm talking about non-athletes) are also handling things wrong? Athletes are put under a lot more pressure to make a choice, but they aren't really any different than me or any other typical high school senior was/is. I mean, I always knew I was going to Iowa, but a lot of kids don't make that decision very early. But only athletes' decision processes are placed under a microscope.
No, kids who struggle to pick different schools are not handling things wrong. In fact, I just visited Madison, Wisconsin last weekend to attend a conference with my daughter, who is a senior in high school, on what to look for when picking schools. I talked to plenty of kids who, while not high-profile, have much more difficult choices to make than this kid.I suppose kids who struggle to make up their mind on what school they want to attend (I'm talking about non-athletes) are also handling things wrong? Athletes are put under a lot more pressure to make a choice, but they aren't really any different than me or any other typical high school senior was/is. I mean, I always knew I was going to Iowa, but a lot of kids don't make that decision very early. But only athletes' decision processes are placed under a microscope.
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My problem, and my ONLY problem, is that he committed one place, and then decided to keep looking. As far as I am concerned, that is not honoring your commitment. Not honoring your commitments is a BAD THING, and it doesn't matter if he's 17, or 77, if someone goes goes back on their word, I have a problem with it, and I'll criticize those actions.
If he wants to go to Iowa, then he shouldn't be visiting other schools. If he wants to visit other schools, he should de-commit to Iowa and go visit. You can't have it both ways.
If I had an offer to Iowa, Alabama, and Stanford, I'd visit all three before committing to one. And I would have fun.So if he committed to Alabama but then changed his mind and decided to come to Iowa would you not want him becasue he was not not honoring his commitment and not honoring his commitment is a BAD THING?
If I had an offer from Iowa, Alabama, and Stanford, I would commit to Iowa, and have no problem taking trips to check out the other 2...and I'd probably have fun too.
If I had an offer to Iowa, Alabama, and Stanford, I'd visit all three before committing to one. And I would have fun.
And then I'd commit to Stanford.
If I had an offer to Iowa, Alabama, and Stanford, I'd visit all three before committing to one. And I would have fun.
And then I'd commit to Stanford.
Good for you, but his best chance at the NFL is with Iowa. Iowa has twice as many OL in the NFL as Stanford and 2 more than Alabama. There's a reason for that and it's coaching. At Alabama he would be just another 4 star recruit to.
No, kids who struggle to pick different schools are not handling things wrong. In fact, I just visited Madison, Wisconsin last weekend to attend a conference with my daughter, who is a senior in high school, on what to look for when picking schools. I talked to plenty of kids who, while not high-profile, have much more difficult choices to make than this kid.
My problem, and my ONLY problem, is that he committed one place, and then decided to keep looking. As far as I am concerned, that is not honoring your commitment. Not honoring your commitments is a BAD THING, and it doesn't matter if he's 17, or 77, if someone goes goes back on their word, I have a problem with it, and I'll criticize those actions.
If he wants to go to Iowa, then he shouldn't be visiting other schools. If he wants to visit other schools, he should de-commit to Iowa and go visit. You can't have it both ways.
I don't agree that necessarily just because he plays at Iowa he will have a better shot at the NFL. Soon statistically Bama could pass Iowa with O-lineman drafted considering the talent they bring in. Bama is just known to get players drafted in general. Iowa is better known for TE's and OL but that could fade.
That is a poor analogy. Why would my daughter commit to the less prestigious job a year and a half before she was expected to start working? That is the situation here. Ross had no urgency in making a commitment, but he committed early anyways. If he wanted other offers, he shouldn't have committed. This isn't that hard to comprehend.So hypothetically speaking... Let's say your daughter graduates at the top of her class in Finance. She applies for several dream jobs, but unfortunately doesn't land any of them so she decides to take a job with a less heralded company for quite a bit less pay. A company who has been battling to stay out of the red, and doesn't provide a lot of long term job security. Then right before she's supposed to start her new job she gets a phone call from one of her dream jobs who says the person they decided to go with originally didn't work out and they would be honored to have her as a part of their team.
Is she wrong for taking the dream job because she already committed to the other less reputable company? Even if the dream job better serves her long term interests?
In my opinion, there isn't a wrong choice in this situation. Same as Ross P. Both of them would be stupid not to consider all of their options. I think you're being narrow-minded.