Well just to clarify my position. My girl is not one of those “bargirls” or a “ladyboy.” When I go there, it will be to retire. Divorce is illegal over there. An anullment is the best they can do and that takes years. Not all pinays want to leave their country. Mabuti Salamat.( I’m good thank you ).
Mine sure acts like a ladyboy (you know what I mean) she would pad up or roller derby at the drop of a dime.
Rough rough life combined with a horrible horrible person and father has taken it's toll.
Not quite UFC fighter but pretty close.
It's taken some work to undo all the damage that men, including and maybe especially her father have done.
But I just keep loving her and we are getting there.
I am starting to see the ground work pay off. She is now starting to see and think about things I said 6-8 months ago.
How far she takes it? Well that's not up to me.
This morning it was about taking responsibility for yourself, your actions.
Granted it was projecting and that I needed to, but I know that she knows deep down.
It's not an easy ride. Relationships aren't.
The world is damaged. People are damaged.
But you can't fix a problem if you don't see one.
That is the hardest part. Seeing the problem.
Second is change.
Dropping people from your life and stuff like that is easy, everybody does, and has done that. I'm talking true change, from within.