Those who are trying to draw a parallel between Meyer/Griesbaum and Ferentz/Ferentz or Brands/Brands are completely missing the point. If Meyer had been open with Barta about her relationship with Griesbaum, an agreement about how to handle this situation could have been developed. And, a lot of this business of bias due to sexual orientation is another "look over here" attempt that has become common place in today's society. The real issue is that Meyer, at least in the view of her supervisor, was a disaster when it came to the "soft skills" that are so highly valued in our world...and rightfully so. And, the allegation that she was insubordinate, if true, would close the book.