I think it's too easy to get caught up in the tough losses, poor performance, and frustrating coaching. I think there are still good things about the way Fran runs this program.
But I will agree 100% that the antics and the whole "please T me up!!!" routine is outrageous, counterproductive, and petulant. It doesn't reflect well on the program and it does NOT do the team good. Ideally, if a coach were to turn around a struggling program and develop a long career, he'd act like this in his first few seasons. Fight his tail off to gain respect and put the program's name out there. Then, as the program develops and improves, the need for these antics lessens and the coach evolves into a more strategic tactician style. This evolution has not happened, for the program, nor for Fran.
Think about it, how many fans (and members of this message board) wish that Ferentz showed more fire and emotion? I think the takeaway message is that, like most areas of life, it's best to find the happy-medium.