I see both sides of this. I guess I'm in the camp that doesn't want a kid at Iowa that "regrets" his signing and wishes he were somewhere else.
I think you are missing the point hawkeyefarmer is making. There are not two sides to this if you have early signing or LOI signings without the stupid commitment process.
If a recruit signs the LOI then another team will not offer so the kid will never know if they wanted him because they had never offered him a scholly. Therefore there is not another side to the story.
I bet all the stoops brothers would have wanted to play at OSU or Mich maybe but they sure found a hell of a home at Iowa.