Oppression of black athletes in college football programs is not unique to one school. White privilege, unconscious bias and systemic racism is ingrained in all walks of life.
I see how some fans don't understand or care to understand why BLM is relevant and say all lives matter. They push back on kneeling for the anthem, refusing to understand why athletes are doing it, what that flag represents to them. If you don't love it, leave it. I see white people complain about how white people are treated and want to talk about black-on-black crime.
It's all disheartening and disgusting but in no way surprising. It's why we are at this point in this country when these atrocities should have been addressed years ago. It's why former players felt like they had to conform to a white culture in the Iowa Football building.
I truly believe change is coming. The people holding strong to a belief that there's no white privilege, unconscious bias and systemic racism will be left behind and become the minorities. It's going to take a lot of work, but I have faith in my kids and the next generations to come.
Rob I saved this just for you. Because you tend to be able to understand the complexity of things better than some.
Everyone is right and everyone is wrong.
I feel like a little kid with two parents arguing and telling me to choose. I like being in the middle, I can see all sides that way. I know a lot of people and so does my wife. Everyone loves to come to us with their problems.
We talk to gay people about their plight and they have some very good points. We talk to African Americans and they have some good points. We talk to native Americans and they have some good points. We talk to military people and they have some good points. We talk to Mexicans and they have some good points. The list goes on and on.
We tend to try and stay in the middle and not lean very hard one way or another. We try and try to get people to see another point of view. It doesn't work very often, but the satisfaction when it does makes up for the times it doesn't.
So when it came to Iowa sports, like I said I know someone who dropped out. He is white. He never said anyone was racist towards him,. but obviously did not enjoy his time at Iowa. It happens. But we can't run around screaming racism and oppression and especially things like white privilege or systematic racism over a handful of people who had a bad experience while attending the University throughout all the years.
The flag issue, like I said I know how I feel about it, but I was attempting to understand when Colin did it. I was trying to see his point of view, so I could get others to see it.
But then how am I supposed to explain that to a Nascar fan who says, ok but now we can't fly the rebel flag either? I say they say it's racist, he says educate yourself. Blah blah blah. So he feels like he can't express himself. Even if he tries to see the other side and I can start to get him there, he says but the other side is not trying to see my side and he is right.
Then along come the 3% with their flag and say hey we are not racist even though we got some bad publicity about it (the university should be able to understand that) and they have points of view that they want people to see.
Everyone has a point.
So I saved this for you, because you as the media are supposed to stay unbiased.
But what if you had to cover all of college football? How do you do that? It's not as easy as people think. It's like being between two parents arguing and telling you to choose. Instead of saying, well if you took this part from that side and that other part from the other side, your problem would be solved. But you can't because everyone is right and everyone is wrong and unfortunately they only see the part about them being right. It's science, that's how the brain works. Everyone is flying a "flag" and everyone is insensitive about other "flags". That is the history of man and is the problem.
Now if you all will excuse me I have to find something else to do than watch or even apparently talk about football, that relaxes me, because college football is no longer a safe place to do that, but a cluster F.