Abusive is a opinion based term is it not?About your wife and cramming. If you were being abusive and not listening what should she go? Leave? Put up with it til you are ready to change? Cram it down your throat...pushing you to change? The program was abusive.
I don't know how old you are but my mom raised all boys by herself. When she couldn't spank your ass and make it hurt anymore because you were to big and she was so small, you got the metal end of the fly swatter. That will get your attention.
She wasn't abusive. Fact just the opposite she was the kindest most generous and loving person you could ever hope to meet. Hundreds and hundreds showed up for her funeral, so she must have been highly regarded by many.
In today's world, many would call her abusive, just from the first couple sentences I said about her, don't you think?
They told us we couldn't discipline our kids and this is the fallout from it. Everything going on.
Spare the rod spoil the child.
Which the one I have actually says
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
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