ArvadaHawk
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put that into words, mr. meme. i can tell you thought really long and hard on your post.
Bye bye.put that into words, mr. meme. i can tell you thought really long and hard on your post.
Bye bye.
It's not the fact that Kirk played any part in his not being brought into teams camps, as he played NO part in it. I think he chose to not be a part of any endorsement, wrote no letters of recommendations, and probable called none of his coaching contacts in the NFL. That is Kirk's right. Kirk was burned professionally and personally by DJK over and over. The fact that he lived with and got high with a drug dealer and his adoptive family could afford a good lawyer that got the heavy charges taken off and thrown on his friend, does not make him innocent. I don't believe Kirk "blackballed" him or even has that ability, and it's ludicrous to think he tipped off the police with everything the Iowa program had to lose. Outside of the garbage can incident, which is mentioned by other players, I don't believe 90 % of his story. It does make one more check against Doyle though. Doyle is looking more and more like the out of control coach that was at Maryland and made that such a toxic culture.It sucks that you were forced to take down that story. DJK doesn't have much for credibility but where there is smoke there is fire and with everything else that has came out I tend to believe that some of what DJK said has some truth to it. I think that information is important for us to read so changes can be made. DJK may not have been good enough to ever played a down of NFL football but he was certainly good enough to have been brought in to some teams camp and I do believe KF played a part in that.
That looks more like a hi wave than a bye wave.
I grew up in a home with an abusive father. For years, I supported him to relatives and friends out of fear and also denial. Once I got into therapy, I realized it was terribly damaging and I no longer have any relationship with him.
Dragging up old social media posts by James and others to try to prove they are lying does not do that. They are speaking out now. You don't have to believe them. Chris Doyle is saying he's innocent as it pertains to racism. He should have a chance to face his accusers.
I feel bad for Dillon Doyle. I sat down with him for about an hour long interview right before he enrolled and wrote a long feature. In every interview I ever conducted with him, he was polite and friendly.
Your opinion of what America is or isn't, that's your right. Every American gets to believe what they want to believe on the necks and backs of thousands of US soldiers and patriots who fought tyranny and injustice around the world and at home for you and others to have the right to an opinion. They love the flag. Yes, some will be upset that it isn't respected, but most will be proud that they defended the freedoms that it represents more than the flag itself.if the iowa team kneels for the anthem, i will take it as a metaphor for kneeling on the neck of this country. no more iowa football for me, in that scenario. let's see how 68k fans feel, should that happen. disrespecting the country is not going to solve one damn issue. you flip the entire country the bird, then demand respect back? nope, the world doesn't look that way. i wonder how the man in charge apparently was absolutely clueless this had been going on for years and years and years and "change in that culture is long overdue" but he gets to say "gee, i didn't know." right.
That's me.
I apologize for not being around here more the last week to answer your questions. I've spent a lot of time on the phone with former players and their parents, listening to their stories.
I haven't looked closely on here, but I'm guessing it's like Twitter where people are sideways with me for how I've reported on the Iowa football story. I wanted to explain my approach and how I covered it as a lot of false information is shared with news moving fast on all of these channels.
James Daniels first spoke up on inequalities last Wednesday, June 3.
The next day, Mike Daniels followed up.
And Rafeal Eubanks and Jaleel Johnson
Then James Daniels again on that Thursday.
Despite the continuing flow of former players that followed with concerns, I waited. I just Retweeted and shared on these boards. The players were getting hammered by fans for speaking out.
https://twitter.com/jamsdans/status/1268577746705354752?s=20
Then Friday, I wrote a column (you can read most of the player stories within it) suggesting Iowa address the situation. Still nothing from Iowa.
Then the floodgates opened Friday night. A flurry of former players came out with their stories. KF released a short statement. The accounts continued rolling in throughout the weekend.
Saturday, a joint statement from KF and Gary Barta, saying they were looking into the matter and Chris Doyle was put on leave. Still more stories.
Sunday afternoon, KF holds a press conference. We're publishing stories on all of this.
Monday, current players begin Tweeting in a show of unity. We published them.
Monday night at about 6, I receive a statement from Derrell Johnson-Koulianos. He asked me to share it like I had with all the other player statements. All of those accounts were from social media and caused Iowa to investigate and suspend Doyle. Media members did not speak to any of those players to vet their stories.
I posted Derrell Johnson-Koulianos' statement Monday night at around 9. I realized his credibility would be disregarded but I talked to some of his former teammates and they encouraged me to publish it. As I said, I hadn't vetted any of the other player stories before publishing.
I'm sure some of you think I know what happened here with DJK. I don't know what's true and not true. I've heard a bunch of stories, just like I have with other players. He was charged with some bad shit. He was convicted of weed possession. And yes, I know cases are pleaded down.
Bottom line, I thought his voice should be heard, too. I hoped all of these players were telling the truth but I didn't know. I was sharing all their stories and then letting readers decide. Again, that's what got the investigation rolling.
If there's one thing I wished I would have done, it's asked the UI last night for a comment on DJK's statement. I waited until the morning. They had no comment and I added that to my post.
The owners of HN decided this afternoon to take down the statement. They did not feel DJK was credible. I should have cleared it with them before publishing even though I still believe it should be posted. It's their site. We've talked it over.
When I set out to cover this story, I wanted to do it as impartially as possible. I Retweeted most of the stories. On a few, I added a reaction like "disgusting" and "powerful" because that was my reaction to reading them. I didn't publish those feelings. I shared human emotions about stories from players who I covered during my 23 years reporting on the team. Everyone was hurting.
I received nice notes from a number of the former players, on social media and personally, thanking me for sharing their stories. Some of the current players reached out to me and thanked me.
Everyone is free to believe who and what they want. They'll be an investigation/review and we'll see what comes of it.
I never called for any coaches' heads. I never badmouthed anyone. I shared stories from the players, the university's press releases and press conferences.
I don't want to be covering this story, but I don't regret doing so.
That's me.
I apologize for not being around here more the last week to answer your questions. I've spent a lot of time on the phone with former players and their parents, listening to their stories.
I haven't looked closely on here, but I'm guessing it's like Twitter where people are sideways with me for how I've reported on the Iowa football story. I wanted to explain my approach and how I covered it as a lot of false information is shared with news moving fast on all of these channels.
James Daniels first spoke up on inequalities last Wednesday, June 3.
The next day, Mike Daniels followed up.
And Rafeal Eubanks and Jaleel Johnson
Then James Daniels again on that Thursday.
Despite the continuing flow of former players that followed with concerns, I waited. I just Retweeted and shared on these boards. The players were getting hammered by fans for speaking out.
https://twitter.com/jamsdans/status/1268577746705354752?s=20
Then Friday, I wrote a column (you can read most of the player stories within it) suggesting Iowa address the situation. Still nothing from Iowa.
Then the floodgates opened Friday night. A flurry of former players came out with their stories. KF released a short statement. The accounts continued rolling in throughout the weekend.
Saturday, a joint statement from KF and Gary Barta, saying they were looking into the matter and Chris Doyle was put on leave. Still more stories.
Sunday afternoon, KF holds a press conference. We're publishing stories on all of this.
Monday, current players begin Tweeting in a show of unity. We published them.
Monday night at about 6, I receive a statement from Derrell Johnson-Koulianos. He asked me to share it like I had with all the other player statements. All of those accounts were from social media and caused Iowa to investigate and suspend Doyle. Media members did not speak to any of those players to vet their stories.
I posted Derrell Johnson-Koulianos' statement Monday night at around 9. I realized his credibility would be disregarded but I talked to some of his former teammates and they encouraged me to publish it. As I said, I hadn't vetted any of the other player stories before publishing.
I'm sure some of you think I know what happened here with DJK. I don't know what's true and not true. I've heard a bunch of stories, just like I have with other players. He was charged with some bad shit. He was convicted of weed possession. And yes, I know cases are pleaded down.
Bottom line, I thought his voice should be heard, too. I hoped all of these players were telling the truth but I didn't know. I was sharing all their stories and then letting readers decide. Again, that's what got the investigation rolling.
If there's one thing I wished I would have done, it's asked the UI last night for a comment on DJK's statement. I waited until the morning. They had no comment and I added that to my post.
The owners of HN decided this afternoon to take down the statement. They did not feel DJK was credible. I should have cleared it with them before publishing even though I still believe it should be posted. It's their site. We've talked it over.
When I set out to cover this story, I wanted to do it as impartially as possible. I Retweeted most of the stories. On a few, I added a reaction like "disgusting" and "powerful" because that was my reaction to reading them. I didn't publish those feelings. I shared human emotions about stories from players who I covered during my 23 years reporting on the team. Everyone was hurting.
I received nice notes from a number of the former players, on social media and personally, thanking me for sharing their stories. Some of the current players reached out to me and thanked me.
Everyone is free to believe who and what they want. They'll be an investigation/review and we'll see what comes of it.
I never called for any coaches' heads. I never badmouthed anyone. I shared stories from the players, the university's press releases and press conferences.
I don't want to be covering this story, but I don't regret doing so.
put that into words, mr. meme. i can tell you thought really long and hard on your post.
if the iowa team kneels for the anthem, i will take it as a metaphor for kneeling on the neck of this country. no more iowa football for me, in that scenario. let's see how 68k fans feel, should that happen. disrespecting the country is not going to solve one damn issue. you flip the entire country the bird, then demand respect back? nope, the world doesn't look that way. i wonder how the man in charge apparently was absolutely clueless this had been going on for years and years and years and "change in that culture is long overdue" but he gets to say "gee, i didn't know." right.
Oh F YOU. This country has been disrespecting black folks for 400 years.
PS Arvada is a shithole
Why’s his wrong and yours right?Your “argument” is so anti-American and unworthy of serious discussion that the only appropriate retort is to instruct you to go F yourself.
I had an abusive father growing up too Rob. So I can empathize. I never went to therapy, instead I left and joined the military. When I returned from service, he once threaten to kick my ass. I looked at him with very angry eyes said “ What did you say to me?” He turned around and walked away with a little fear and hesitation in his eyes. Since that time, we’ve came to that unsaid understanding and we’ve had a great relationship until his passing. That was therapy enough for me. Since that time, I’ve never backed down from nobody.
You have to weed out things. Not speaking about his credibility it is not uncommon for abuse victims to take blame and build up an abuser. Later when the abuse is in the rearview mirror by a long way it is properly processed.
Please...stop with the victim mentality. There was a completely acceptable alternative: say nothing, or just say it's time for the next leg of the journey. He met with the coaches regarding evaluation, draft potential, etc.
You can't possibly read that original statement and say, "Yep, victim". Not objectively, anyway.
I grew up in a home with an abusive father. For years, I supported him to relatives and friends out of fear and also denial. Once I got into therapy, I realized it was terribly damaging and I no longer have any relationship with him.
Dragging up old social media posts by James and others to try to prove they are lying does not do that. They are speaking out now. You don't have to believe them. Chris Doyle is saying he's innocent as it pertains to racism. He should have a chance to face his accusers.
I feel bad for Dillon Doyle. I sat down with him for about an hour long interview right before he enrolled and wrote a long feature. In every interview I ever conducted with him, he was polite and friendly.
What is the definition Bob? Just stop with victim blaming.
If your daughter gets raped by definition, is she a victim? Or not.
What the actual F?
You said "weed out things". Truth isn't selective or optional. His announcement said what it said. If you choose to "weed things out", especially knowing your penchant for ideological agenda-seek, you're literally left with the equivalent of DJK. "Why, one don't know where the stories end and the lies begin!" (Sheriff Thurman, original "Walking Tall")