HawkGold
Well-Known Member
Ok good point on the ansisters comment. I was thinking specifically about people who bring up slavery like we still need to make up for it. But there is no way for you to know I was being specific about one thing so it came off like I was saying that was the only thing. My bad.
When I was at college, I came from small town no minority Iowa. The guys next door were black and though friendly they kept to themselves. They guys were from a major inner city. They were pledging in an all black fraternity and would walk around chained together. They would host pot smoking for their frat right next door. They had these canes to symbolize beatings. They would drop the canes while still in their hands and they would bang numerous times. It was finals weak and I was really tired due to this. They also had a speaker on the wall. I went over and knocked asking if they could be more quiet at 4:30 AM. One of the guys took offense (not from the room) and backed me against the wall and asked if I was prejudiced. I said no. About that time my roomie came out (was also from the same city with a club. The roomie was mouthie spouted out, "don't you have any common sense?" Then they all got mad. Pretty soon all the hallway (mostly white) spilled out and there was pushing and shoving. The housing director showed up and soon the campus police. I about started a race riot. It was an SEC state school.
During that year I was watching a movie and said joking out loud the N word at a character in a movie in the lounge. I meant nothing by it but it came out. I turned around and there was a black kid I really liked. The hurt in his eyes was unmistakable. I could never take it back. He would never talk to me after that. He'd just look away.