All KF wanted was for him to live by the same set of rules as everyone else. Thats it period. He never seemed to think the rules applied to him. As for his parents, I think it would be a little judgmentel to get on them without knowing all they may have been through with up to this point. I meen who knows ?[/QUOTE]
Maybe they are trying to get through to him. Maybe they have tried and they are done exhausting their resources. I don't mean to assume that they haven't. The fact remains that he's in the midst of making a decision that would probably be more destructive to him and his future than anything he's done in the past including drugs. There's no coming back from this.
He's putting himself in front of his teammates once again, he's likely putting himself in front of his family and want they want, he's certainly putting himself in front of the coaches and staff at Iowa, and he's also putting himself in front of the entire University. To be willing to drag all of those people through the mud simply so he can feel justified is as selfish as it gets. The only point I was trying to make is that if there is someone close to him who can get through to him they need to try to convince this nonsense to stop before it escalates any further.