Back to what I was trying to point out in 100 different posts in a hundred different ways.
The reason why everyone is on here is because they are Hawkeye fans. That right there skews ones perception and thought process.
If you walk around all day thinking about sex, you will notice features of others, billboards, commercials, with attractive people more than you normally would.
If you are thinking about food, everywhere you turn you notice smells and food is everywhere.
What you tell your brain is what you notice. However it goes beyond that. If you are thinking about food and you catch some one saying hand me a piece of chalk, your brain can take the words piece of and turn them into pizza. Bad example I know but the principal is sound. We have all seen the memes and pictures of a carrot that looks like it has a pecker, or whatever. It doesn't obviously, but that's what we see.
So now what happens to someone like Gold?? They are constantly thinking about and looking for racism. What do you think they are going to see? Even if it's not real, their mind automatically goes there.
Again I am not saying racism doesn't exist or isn't real, I am saying that one must be careful in claiming it.
Another point of consideration is this. When your child is scared of something that you know they have no reason to be, ,it doesn't make it less real to them. They will try to get you to see from their perspective why their fear is valid and you will try to get them to see from your perspective why it is not.
Just something to think about.