I couldn't agree more. Some people don't think there is any grey. I say white privilege is getting better and better over time. Because of that, people say I don't believe it exists.The two sides are drawn up as to how much racism, unconscious bias and white privilege there is, not as to whether they exist or not, outside of perhaps a few white knuckleheads who think there are none of those things at all.
Personally, I think there is less of those things than what SJWs tell there is, but those things definitely exist. I also think that the use of those labels can be used as a crutch and can sometimes be condescending and detrimental to communities of color.
I don't think that makes me a bad person or clueless.
I think we are about 90% to where we need to go regarding racism and going in the right direction. (The actual percentage and if we are moving fast enough can be debated, but the fact that we are moving in the right direction can not.) Its almost like people want to burn it all down and start from scratch when we are so close.