To answer you directly in response to your second two questions: yes and yes. I have no problem with you given guidance to your daughter, in fact, I applaud you. But there is little to be gained from the constant bashing of other people's kids who play college sports. Your plethora of negative posts about everything you seem to feel our coaches do wrong gets really old. I would hate to think you are one of the many parents I observe these days who blame kids' coaches for everything that goes wrong. Execution, by the way, is the single most important thing in any sport. It is a shared responsibility between the coaches and the athletes. When KF stresses the lack of good execution, my take is that he is accepting responsibility, since any fool knows that successful coaching leads to good execution.