I'm going to get crucified for this, but I hope we still keep a place open for him if he ultimately wants to come to Iowa. I'm normally not this forgiving to "dumbassery", but in this case I'm not going to judge his circumstances. Sounds like the kid has had it rough, and the environment at Iowa might be just what he needs.
I don't think you're being unfair but I see another Derrick Willies project that goes bad. I think when Kirk was new he didn't mind being a surrogate father. But I think those days are over with. When you arrive at Iowa Kirk will be demanding and kids without decent mentors will find themselves in the doghouse quick. Look at how many kids transfer each off-season becuz their "needs" aren't being met.
I do know his situation and it's not good.