Here's my honest take. Both parties (regardless of thoughts/opinions of them) are similar and although they're opinions differ as in how to get there they basically want the same things and that does not include violence, hatred toward the other side, or a desire for the other party to disappear. The violence comes from the extremists on both sides, acting out on their own, and has absolutely nothing to do with the thoughts and ideations of the parties themselves.
Charlie Kirk's assassination IMO was just that. It was an act from a sick individual and was not something that democrats stood behind. Social Media plays into it just as much as everything is now about generating clicks which instantly gets people pushing the limits to stir up as much hatred as possible, not because they're actually violent or because they really believe it, but because they simply want to stir shit up and get clicks and comments. Because of this affect you get even more of a political divide and the mentality that its democrats/republicans fueling the fire, collectively as a whole rather than actions of individual. Factor in the argument over gun rights and it simply becomes a shitstorm.
I'd be willing to bet 99% of both sides are not violent individuals and do not believe in violent acts such as the assassination of Charlie Kirk. I also believe that they'd support the idea of actually working things out from a bipartisan standpoint to try to put an end to senseless acts of violence. But we all know how Washington works as well as the fact that its much easier to point fingers and blame rather then to try to actually put a stop to it.