Jack is on record multiple times saying there's no way he'd play for his dad because of the shit storm that his brothers both dealt with. I respect that big time.
As someone who has coached a son from kindergarten through high school, I understand completely. If I had it to do over again I'd probably not have taken the high school job because I've never gotten to just sit back and enjoy watching him play as a spectator.
It's also why track and XC are my favorite high school sports now. I have zero responsibilities or decisions to make, and I can go watch him compete with nothing to do but cheer on him and his teammates.
He's gotten a couple D1 XC visits and a whole bunch of D2/3/NAIA visits as a junior and I'm sure the offers will start in September. It's been amazing as a parent to watch it happen as an outside observer and I'm ridiculously glad it isn't baseball. Never thought I'd say that...if you'd asked me ten years ago I would've hoped like hell he'd be a college baseball player but then I wouldn't have gotten to appreciate this whole thing as much. People always think it's a given that coaching your kids is the ultimate experience a coach can have, but it's not. There are a lot of really cool things, but there's a lot of shitty stuff too. Chief among them that you don't get to soak it up. That's why I'm so thankful mine has blossomed in a sport that isn't one I coach. There will be plenty of time for us to bond over baseball as he gets into adulthood. With track and cross country I can just go enjoy everything stress free and I have a blast.