I can't take credit for this, but it is exactly how I feel.
PLEASE STOP telling other races & cultures what THEY should find offensive. Defending the use of Uncle Ben and Aunt Jemima is not your hill to die on. YOU don't get to decide what's offensive to another race or culture.
PLEASE STOP finding a comment, or video, from 1 black person that shares your view and post it all proud like "see, black people don't care if I wave a flag around that's racist to it's core". When 99% of a culture feel 1 way, showing me what the 1% thinks has no bearing on how that race/culture feels as a whole.
PLEASE STOP saying, or trying to convince yourself or others, that you know what your talking about and you "can't be racist" because there's that 1 black guy at work you talk to. That does not make you an African American expert.
PLEASE STOP ignoring problems, or denying the obvious facts, because they don't affect you personally.
And if you STILL don't understand even a little bit why "All Lives Matter" is extremely inappropriate, then you're either racist or ignorant. And I know it sucks to admit that to yourself, but it is what it is.
We HAVE to do better. PLEASE STOP being silent and making excuses.