I'd probably stay in Seattle or Portland or wherever it is. Yeah, I get that remote work is a huge buzzword right now, but I have a baaaaad feeling shit is getting ready to go totally tits up in the next 12-18 months and the absolute last thing you want to do is be in Iowa City if that happens. Let's say we see a market drawdown on par with 2008 as the Fed tightens. Downsizing will occur. Bankers will bank, consultants will consult, etc. "Why have things gotten so bad?" manager will ask consultant. Consultant will say "well, it is abundantly clear that you fine managers, who are among the best in the business, are not optimizing cross functional synergies through rationalized use of collaborative resources." Next comes the memo from HR "All employees must be physically present in the office two/three days per week and available for in person meetings blah blah blah." And with that, remote work will be forever altered. Sure, you won't have to fight traffic everyday, but you will need to live somewhere near the office. "Okay Mr. Bob the Consultant, but what do we with people who refuse to come back?" "Easy, those people will be deemed to have voluntarily quit and then you don't have to pay severance. You can rationalize expenses and restructure and the troublemakers will weed themselves out."
There's a tight labor market right now that lets people say "F that, I ain't going into work" but the Bill Lumberghs of the world need their ring kissed everyday and the moment the labor market flips, you can bet your ass those guys will want enough ring kissing to make up for the 26 months of ring kissing they've missed. This shit is always cyclical. Always. And when the cycle flips you want to be somewhere with abundant career options.
Now, the counterpoint. Sit down. You're in your 40's. You're a fucking dinosaur. At some point when you near 50 unless you have been tapped to be the next EVP on the potential CEO succession plan track, there's a non-zero chance they're gonna throw your ass to the curb. It's like clockwork. Almost everyone who makes solid coin basically needs to be prepared for involuntary retirement at around 50 unless they are in healthcare or own a business and control their own destiny. This shit has been going on for 40 years in the US so no one can act shocked by it, but damned near everyone is. At some point in the next decade you are gonna get your interview with "the Bobs" and your name is gonna end up on the wrong list. Now when that happens, do you want to be in IC or in the PNW? If you're in IC with no mortgage, when that day comes you are gonna feel a lot better than you will if you have a mortgage payment, giant tax bill and a team of contractors standing in your living room building an extra room onto your house. I don't know your industry, career, company or department, only you can look at it and determine if that is a real risk, but ask yourself if you are gonna get moved up or moved out when they do the next round of restructuring or management changes. My brother had been at a place for 20+ years and was completely on the rock star track until the CEO changed and then he saw himself getting set up for "50 year old exit" and he wisely filed a complaint and got a phat settlement. But he's gay and doesn't have any kids, so he had a basis for a complaint and no other mouths to feed. You really have to analyze this and it should guide your decision-making process. Shit, maybe I just talked myself into IC.