MichaelHawk
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The answer is No.
You act like you would be one way if you weren't a football player but you would be completely different if you were? It is immaturity, in most cases, that leads to this type of behavior. To say you would be more responsible/mature if you played football at Iowa is so bogus. You would be the same person you would have been otherwise, except maybe you would have had a bigger head and been LESS mature than you would have been if you didn't play football at Iowa.
They are college kids, whether they play football or not. They will make mistakes, whether they play football or not. To act like one would not make mistakes or one would be more mature if one played D1 football is ludicrous.
But you aren't alone in your belief. I'm sure many others think the same thing about themselves.
Good for you. I'm sure that choice is not always so easy with so many around you glorifying it. I have friends well into their 40's now whom have never had a drink. They don't feel ad and they were always still the life of the party when younger. Your father is proud I'm sure. I always felt and still do, that beer is my drug of choice, I can still have full control over myself, and I know my limitations.
Then again, you are always on here or must be watching and analyzing games, so you're staying busy.
This is true lol. This is my drug, and I admitedly don't practice moderation But at least this is legal.
I will probably get pretty slizzered on my 21st in March, mostly to appease the large amount of people who have had that date circled on their calenders. But after that, it will be occasional drinks, and little more than that.
Don't cave in, man! I didn't drink in college either and never wanted to, before or after 21. Years later I've had old friends tell me now that they wished they would have been like this.
I'm a current student at Iowa. I don't drink (I've had 3 sips of beer in my life: once at age 7, and twice in the past year, both in laid back settings), NEVER touched drugs, period. It helps that my dad is a (now former) probation officer, and 1. he would kill me for being like a lot of the people he had to deal with, and 2. he's a human lie detector, so he'd have found out.
have a beer, lighten up, and live a bit. Are you holding out on getting laid too out of fear of your old man?
He's not THAT tough on stuff. Now that I'm out of high school, he wouldn't really care. I just choose not to drink because I don't want to. Doesn't mean I don't have a good time. I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell me how to live my life.
good point, I shouldn't tell you how to live your life. You are missing out on a lot of fun by not drinking in college though. A lot of crazy stories and experiences. Being slighly impaired creates these stories. You are only in college once is my ADVICE.
a little from column A & a little from column B. Nothing major. Parents should know and educate the kids. even as strict as you are with them you can never predict the situations they will deal with, nor the stress that could compound the problems.
No offense to the OP but "trying" controlled substances seems not quite what was going on at DJK's and his roommate's pad, at least according to the police complaint.
+1
Trying and selling are two differnt things....
Yes they are, but DJK also wasn't "trying" coke, he was "using" and that is a big difference as well.
For the record, I smoked a little weed, but since I didn't inhale it doesn't really count right? Now the cigars I smoked.....well I won't get into that.
cocaine?
I don't chalk trying cocaine up too one of those crazy things college kids do.
Drinking..... sure.
Not cocaine.