okeefe4prez
Well-Known Member
All well and good for Pop and Mom OK4P because their spawn were model children. But what if your brother was sort of a hellion, got to college, had a few scrapes but nothing serious, impregnated an athlete in another college sport, thought in the spring he was going to play but by the time fall rolled around circumstances dictated that he would not play, transferred to another school hundreds of miles away, then dropped out before the start of school with all sorts of academic, financial and family obligations, and in general caused all sorts of tension, disruption and embarrassment within your family, to the point that your father more or less disowned your brother? Think Mom and Pop might want a different environment for their youngest son?
Again, I think you're missing the point. This is freaking high school. I totally get if they don't want the kid to go to Iowa. Makes total sense. But what this family is doing is akin to the day my brother came home from Iowa State with his black boyfriend and announced to the world he was gay my parents then deciding to pull me out of Urbandale and sending me to Dowling so I could pray the gay away or something ridiculous. I mean, my mom was 16 when she had my bro, so she wasn't exactly gonna judge had he knocked up some gal, even if it brought shame on the family, but the gay card with the black boyfriend was a tougher pill to swallow. However, my mom, despite having but a 9th grade education, was smart enough to know that me and my bro are vastly different people, as I suspect these youngsters are vastly different people. They prolly just want to protect junior from the spotlight and constant comparisons to his brother that will be very difficult to match or exceed. Ultimately, providing all kinds of structure when the kid is 14-18 is unlikely to have any bearing on his self-control when/if he hits a BCS campus as a big time recruit. It's just a total shelter from the real world.