imported_ankle23
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Does he apologize if he's still with New Mexico??
So it takes him being scrutinized by the media to apologize? Did he just realize he was wrong??
at new mexico, he walked on water, so it didn't even come up.
Does he apologize if he's still with New Mexico??
So it takes him being scrutinized by the media to apologize? Did he just realize he was wrong??
Interestingly, though, most people forget the next thing that happened after Jesus said this.....which was to tell the woman, "Go, and sin no more".
Does he apologize if he's still with New Mexico??
So it takes him being scrutinized by the media to apologize? Did he just realize he was wrong??
Jon, my guess is your apology was heartfelt and authentic. I have a strong feeling Alford's apology was the product of a lawyer or press agent and came with billable hours.I understand the skepticism and not saying I am buying it either. That said, I know there have been times in my life where I have had to apologize for something, and really, really was repentant, and if the other person to whom I needed forgiveness from hadn't taken me at my word, life would have been tough. They had every reason to believe I was just apologizing to make a situation much better, or take away the stress, etc. But they chose to forgive me and move on....at that point, it was up to me to prove how earnest I was.
You can always know sincerity by the fruit a person bears after they ask for forgiveness.
So, if Bruin fans are already upset with the AD for "Sucking the life out of the program", you have to wonder how much of a safety net Alford has with an AD who may very well be on a hot seat. Maybe Alford should have checked out Dan Guerrero to see if he is going to be around to protect him the way Bowlsby did.
If Guerrero gets fired for not properly vetting Alford and embarrassing UCLA, I can't see a new AD keeping Alford around. Especially if he is pulling the NCAA early exit stunt as he is known to do.
...I've apologized for things I've done and said years later after being convicted of the need to do so.
It sure isn't worded like something he would write himself either. Where was that statement 14 some odd yrs ago. If that isn't UcLa trying to just put a glass of water on a forest fire I dunno what is. He's so disingenuous it's not even funny. It'll pacify the Bruin faithful I suppose but will it pacify their beat writers?
This may be closer to reality than one might think.If Alford would have worded it would have read like this:
"I did all I could...I apologize for saying the Pierce was innocent it's not like I can make the guilty plea for the player."
It sure isn't worded like something he would write himself either. Where was that statement 14 some odd yrs ago. If that isn't UcLa trying to just put a glass of water on a forest fire I dunno what is. He's so disingenuous it's not even funny. It'll pacify the Bruin faithful I suppose but will it pacify their beat writers?
Anyone who even remotely buys this lawyered up, supposed apology should look up "gullible" in the dictionary and find their picture. The timing and motive behind an apology usually defines ones intent. Just last week Alfraud was claiming he did nothing wrong, and placed ALL the blame on the university. Did he not say he did what he was told by the University...and offered no remorse or apology at that time? He was "just following orders" -- as if that is a valid excuse for his behavior. Now, under immense media pressure, he issues this ridiculous statement.
Also, where is the apology for Athletes in Action and his role in trying to hush up the victim? This statement only addresses one of his MANY sins while in Iowa City. This guy is a putrid human being, and putrid human beings only "apologize" when forced to, and when it is in THEIR best interests. It is like the convict who apologizes because they got caught. We all know who this guy is so when Jon tried to sell that there may be some merit to this statement, I threw up a little in my mouth...and lost a little respect for him in the process.
If Alford would have worded it would have read like this:
"I did all I could...I apologize for saying the Pierce was innocent it's not like I can make the guilty plea for the player."
It's never too late to apologize for something we have done or said. However, it is the motive behind the repentance that matters most. If Alford came to his AD and felt like he needed to do this because it has been weighing on his conscience and he needed to do it, then its never too late. If he did it because he felt like it was good PR and he was taking heat for it and this is an attempt to get the heat off his back? He'll have to deal with that.
Being that I don't know what it is, I sure as heck am not in a position to judge it, as I've apologized for things I've done and said years later after being convicted of the need to do so.
I think it's possible Alford and UCLA will face even more of a backlash with this failed attempt to come to Jesus. You only get one chance, and they may have blown it.