Maybe this example will illustrate better what I am trying to say.
I hire many companies to do work for my business. I also hire my brother and his company to do work for me. When I hire him, I simple tell him to get X, Y, and Z done. I don't worry about him, I don't check up on him, I don't micromanage him. I hire lots of other companies as well, and I give them a scope of work, I check in on them frequently, I do micromanage them in both the way they are doing the job, and obviously the quality of the job. I am very hands on with these other companies. I have worked with some companies for 17 years now, but I will never innately trust them like I do my brother.
I could easily imagine the same being the case for working with my son when he is old enough. I think KF is very specific in the way he wants his offense run with a KOK or GD. As he says, he "hangs around" the offense during the week and I do think he micromanages the offensive side of the ball. If Brian is in charge I just don't see KF doing the same things to Brian that he did to KOK and GD. Posters can say all they want that KF is just always going to be like that, but all I can say is it is different with family. I am very much a micromanager of everything around me, EXCEPT for my brother. If my brother does something different that I want to see, I don't care, as long as the job gets done, and I trust him.......others around me don't get that "leeway".
Is your brother qualified to do the job? He sounds like he is. What has Clueless Junior done to be qualified to be the OC? Nothing.