I went back and attempted to watch some of the game (was at the game in person and had it on DVR).
I agree with the OP that there were some tough breaks (the non-punt block that resulted in a penalty, etc).
I also agree there were some bad drops, or perhaps bad communication between VDB and receivers.
There is one thing that really does stick out in my mind and that is the apparent insistence to run power running plays when the other team is practically daring you to beat them over the top. As other posters have noted, there were frequently 8 (even 9) guys playing within a few yards of the LOS. We have to eventually make teams pay with the deep ball. In games like this (and some last year), it seems like the defense has 15 guys.
It has been like this for the last 10 years. There ALWAYS is 8 to 9 guys within 2-3 yards of the line of scrimmage, and we continue to try to run into it, usually with the delayed off tackle play. Frankly, it's sickening. It's a combination coach and qb issue. I would hope the qb has the option to change the play, but sometimes it seems like they are going to run the ball no matter what. As much as i like coach Ferentz, the offensive philosophy stinks and has for many years now. You have to play to your strengths; it may not be the same every year. One year you have a drew tate and vandenberg the next. The strengths and weaknesses are different for each player. I feel that we try to do the same thing no matter what. The only change i have seen in 10 years is that we run a few hurry up plays a game now. Frankly there is no point to this, just alot of frustration that has built up over years with our offensive philosophy and the consistent lack of production.