This thread really delivers.
I think there may be a lesson lurking here about the dangers of hero worship. The older I've gotten, the more I've found myself being philosophical about who is worthy of being on a pedestal. You see this a lot in sports because so much of what makes a great athlete is set at conception. Yeah, lots of hard work and training goes into really excelling, but you can be a complete asshole AND be really hard working and dedicated to your chosen sport/trade.
With sports figures, we get a really warped view of these guys. We see them in situations where they are being universally adored - arenas full of screaming fans, people lining up for autographs, impromptu public appearances where everyone there wants a selfie with the hero, media coverage that is (necessarily and appropriately) very narrowly focused on sport, etc. We less often get insight into what they are like when they are not in whatever mode they are in when they are getting the Special Treatment.
We put these guys on a high pedestal way too quickly, in other words. It's the risk that comes along with being emotionally invested in something.
You know who is a sports hero? Jackie Fucking Robinson is a hero. Throwing a ball through a hoop doesn't make you a hero. Signing a few autographs and posing for some selfies doesn't make you a hero. Hell, even making visits to a children's hospital doesn't make you a hero. That's a nice thing to do, but I would contend it's still a flavor of Special Treatment that we should all be very hesitant to draw any hard conclusions from.
We should be drawing from a large, diverse body of evidence before declaring someone a hero or role model or whatever. That takes many years and special challenging circumstances. The window we get into what a typical sports figure is like is very narrow. In modern times with slick PR and all that, I would even go as far to call it "controlled", sometimes even "manufacturered". We desperately want these guys to be heroes and role models - the people on the supply side are aware of that and make efforts to paint a picture consistent with that.