Clear the cache and or hit refresh. 99% of the people that have emailed me about this, or posted on facebook, etc, when they have done this, it clears up.
There may also be some bugs on there causing the hangups with loading speed, and I am looking into ways to increase it.
Advertising is going to remain a part of this site as it allows us to keep it free. Were there no ads, it would load as fast as lightning...then again, it wouldn't load at all cuz it wouldn't be here. I primarily view this site via my laptop that is connecting to the net via wifi, so not a hard connection. There are times when I notice a lag, but it's infrequent.
I am also keeping an eye on the video player on the front page. If I feel it's seriously clogging the works, then we'll yank it before football season starts.
I have a few ideas on this front but need to flesh them out with my tech team first.