Heartfelt Goodbye

Very sad indeed. Always so unfortunate when things like this happen. Hard to understand why ... My best to you and your family.
 
Friends Remember 4 Killed In I-80 Crash - Des Moines News Story - KCCI Des Moines

Heres the news story if anyone hasent seen. Im not asking you to donate money but the info is there. 8 and 4 year old daughters, and a 2 month old son. Stay at home mom, yea not a good situation for them. Just takes one bad mistake and you ruin 3 lives including your own. Move over for emergency vehicles on the highway. What really hit me is that this guy pretty much imaged my life. We both have 3 kids with stay at home wives. Both struggled in finding a job until recently. Infact i tried to get him hired on where i work but it didnt pay enough so he held out for that job. I remember his wife telling me late nights because i get home at 1 in the morning and shes up. He gets called out of town to do these jobs on the highway and its very dangerious. She always prays and wonders if thats the last time she will ever see him. My understanding is that he died in the hospital. I dont want to get gross but i hope she didnt see him, from my understand of the wreck the 3 guys just got demolished. I wouldnt want my wife to see me like that. Ive said alot, im just trying to deal with this and my own mortality. I could of posted this on the Huskers sight but i live in iowa and im an iowan so i figured it might hit more close to home with you guys.

Make sure the wife contacts Social Security about survivor benefits for her and the children (when she's able to do so).

Deepest condolences
 
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