I don't want to put words in your mouth, but it sounds like you are saying there needs to be two sets of rules. One for the "walk-ons, 2 and 3 star kids" and another for the 4 star kids. Is that correct?
I'm not happy about the Benjamin situation either, but after reading the form that each student athlete gets once they commit, it lays it out very clearly what the rules are, and what is expected of each commit. And, just like I would expect the University to honor their end of the deal, even if the kid gets hurt, and can't play, I also expect the commit to abide by the rules laid out for them. No matter what their star rating is.
And no way would I accept a coach who had two sets of rules for kids. In fact, I would be very interested in what coaches do not treat their players equally, and what the public concept is of them. Are they in the SEC where many of the coaches are thought to be rather sleazy. Maybe I am just naive and they are actually in our own conference. But if they are, I sure don't hear about them that much.
Just my humble, old school opinion.