Lee is human, i.e. he makes mistakes, both on and off the mat. His "excuses are for wusses"comment was immature when he made it, as is obvious now. I don't think anyone would ever suggest Lee should be defined by his last loss -- that's a straw man argument. What he MAY be partially -- and fairly -- defined by is how he reacted to disappointment....which, let's face it, he's experienced almost none of over the past 5 years on the mat. It's easy to suck it up when you're winning. True character and priorities can also be revealed after losses.
Warner said it best after the tourney was over: he said after he lost, he didn't feel like wrestling and continuing in the tournament either. But he did, for himself and for the team. And by gutting it out with effort and skill he won several more matches....and was glad he did.
Kudos to him.