If hooliganism truly is the reason why you don't like soccer, more power to you. It doesn't really matter to me if people don't like the sport. The only thing that mystifies me is when these people claim that no one else does either. That's just blind.
However, it's an oversimplification to claim that soccer is responsible for violent fan behavior. Disaffected youth is not bred through sport.
Millions of soccer matches take place around the world with hundreds of millions of attendees every year without a single incident of violence. If hooliganism was inherent to the sport, we'd have seen it accompany MLS, and it hasn't...even while SF Giants fans are beaten into comas, Raiders' fans are shooting people, Indiana Pacers are punching people in Detroit's stands and fatal riots break out after Red Sox games.
You can say you hate sports, you can say you hate alcohol, you can say that you hate the economic policies which breed a hostile lower class, but to say you hate soccer is letting the tail wag the dog.
My best guess is, though, that you hate soccer just because you do, and you seize on its most undesirable elements to help you win an unwinable argument, which is that soccer is an "epic fail" in this country (your words).