I think we may need to give him a mulligan on this season. I cannot imagine unexpectedly losing your dad at that age. One doesn't just flush that away and move right on with life. He showed us His potential and what we have to look forward to whenever he is able to put his life back together. Even at that he is still doing a lot of nice things out there.
What's this make, year 3 of a kick in the gut for the guy as he trys to get a season under his belt?
A little of my own perspective...
My dad died very unexpectedly at the age of 57; I was 26. And when I say unexpectedly, I talked to him at 8:30 the previous evening in a very normal conversation, and my mom showed up at my workplace at 8:30 the next morning to tell me he died.
First thing I want to say is I'm not Jack Nunge. Everyone handles those kinds of things differently and everyone grieves differently. But I will say that I know some of what he's feeling right now and I can't imagine playing basketball at all, let alone P5 basketball on TV in a year when you can't be around your family.
I was in a total fog for months afterwards. Couldn't concentrate on anything, and every morning when I woke up had a little mini panic attack because as weird as it sounds, you sort of forget that he had died and it takes a couple minutes to "remember" when you wake up. I know it sounds strange, but it happens, and the constant re-hash of it everyday runs your soul down. It's exhausting. Got to the point where I didn't want to go to bed because I knew what was coming in the morning.
so...
1) Jack is a hurting unit right now. The fact that he's even playing at all tells you how strong a kid he is. I was close with my dad similar to how I've read Jack and his old man were, and I can tell you it's a total kick in the gut that sticks with you 24 hours a day.
2) The hardest part is still coming. Right now he's where he needs to be. He's with his teammates and a great coaching staff that cares about him every day. I've always liked Fran because of how protective he is of his players and running a clean program, but seeing how he's handled this whole thing with Nunge's situation and how supportive he's been publicly makes me really not give a shit if they win anymore. It's evident he'd gladly take a bullet for any of his players and that's what matters.
But like I said, the hardest part is still coming. There will come a day in the next few moths when he's not surrounded by his team or family, and doesn't have basketball to distract him. Those are the hard parts. Similar to how most of you have probably experienced in some form or another, the first few days after a death aren't the hard ones. It's when everyone goes home and it's just you and the walls.
Jack will get through this and be a better basketball player than he is right now. And he deserves as long as it takes.