Your point #2 is the concerning one. Yesterday we got the defecit down to twelve and then Rutgers promptly ripped off back to back breakaway dunks. In one of the dunks Connor can clearly be seen glancing at the bench with a confused look on his face, if not quite a shoulder shrug, when he should have been busting it back on defense. That's not the first time I've seen him with that "not me" look on his face. He was caught looking at his dad/coach with that same look during a timeout in the Maryland game. Then of course the technical at OSU.
We need Connor, and others, to have that "next play" look that they had earlier in he season. The focused look they had in January, or during the Iowa State game. The body language we've shown the last three or four games would have gotten us rolled by fifteen against the Clones. And we would have lost most of the road games we've won.