The article on ESPN says Patterson used the word with a player who was using it to tell all the players they should not use the word. Still, if you are a white person, you say, "please do not use the N-Word." You don't actually say the N word. Come on, Gary be brighter than that. You are paid millions of dollars, don't be stupid.
I am pleased when I am seeing stories like these stories for two reasons. First, selfishly, it take some of the focus off of Iowa as the hub of player outrage on racial concerns. Two, these are discussions that everyone needs to be having, not just football programs, and education and dialogue on this issue are looooong overdue.