He’s finally got another appt scheduled for a valve replacement and a procedure where they “un-kink” a blood vessel feeding his heart. I don’t know what the proper medical term for that procedure is.
As far the covid stuff, he’s tested negative now and positive for the antibodies. If there was anyone on the planet who I thought would 100% die from it it’d have been him. His doctors pretty much told him the same thing in a nice way.
He’s married to my mom’s sister (who is a raging, non-functional, shit your drawers [not kidding] alcoholic) and in the process of a divorce, selling a house, and moving back to the town I live in. You can’t imagine how difficult it is to sell a house when the other co-owner is blackout drunk 24/7 and going on a roller coaster from soiling herself one minute, threatening suicide the next, telling you she’ll sign the papers, and three days later refusing and not showing up for court and lawyer appts. I think the stress is gonna actually kill him here pretty quick if I don’t get him out of there and back in the same town where I can look after him. I'd do anything to get my mom back, but I'm glad she's not had to see this; it would have broken her heart big time.
So to answer your question, physically he’s doing better, mentally we’re working on it and it’s going to be ok in a few months. No other choice but to get better. The guy is one of my two best friends since I was born and I ain’t gonna see my mom’s sister put him six feet under. He's one of the smartest and funniest people I've ever met and this whole deal has been slowly running him through a meat grinder over the past 2 decades. His own kids have washed their hands of the situation (I don’t blame them one bit when I think about their childhoods) and I’m the only one he’s got. My parents are both dead, his own brothers don’t live anywhere near, and 25 years spent with someone who makes Otis from Mayberry look like Mr Rogers has pretty much destroyed every friendship and social acquaintance he had. His one fault in this thing has been the fact that he's too soft-hearted and always thought he could get her to quit. Several of us have told him for about the last 15 years to get out but he stays. I can't be mad at him though, no one knows what's going on in another person's head when they choose to live in that situation.
Thanks for asking about it, I appreciate it. I’d probably F it up, but being as I like to tell stories and I can spel pritty good I’ve even thought about writing a book about it. Dead serious...that's how fucked up and completely bonkers the last 20 years of his life and marriage has been. I could tell you stories that would turn your hair white.