I played for a coach in college that was a great coach and had everyone's respect, but during games he was basically a raging a-hole, seemingly comparable to Kelly. All week in practice, before the game, and after the game, he was great to be around and a fantastic coach. He'd occasionally yell and scream in practice, but it was rare. His voice would get loud and he'd get ******, but nothing like during the games. And during games, he was comparable to Kelly. He got fantastic results from us, and I think we just accepted that during the game he was a different person, something I also imagine the ND players feel towards Kelly. And if you haven't watched Kelly coach before, this has always been his style. He isn't just doing this now that he's at ND.
And b/c the public issue was brought up, was it acceptable when Drew Tate yelled at his teamates and the coaches? I loved his passion and fire, but he repeatedly, publicly humiliated his teamates and the coaches w/ his antics. I lost quite a bit of respect for him simply b/c of that. I don't particularly care for coaches screaming at players, as Kelly did, but to me that's tolerable. I unquestionably disagree w/ players acting that way towards each other, though, as Tate often did.
And people need to quit losing objectivity just b/c it's ND. If they're good, admit it. If they suck, call it that way. Too many posters rip ND just b/c they can take a potshot, regardless of whether or not it's remotely accurate, and that looks pathetic. Kelly definitely deserves this thread, but last season a friend was rejoicing when Crist was lost for the season w/ the knee injury. Anybody doing crap like that, or something comparable, needs some perspective.