I obviously can't comment on experiences others have had, but I will share my experience as somebody who was raising a child "recruited" by West.
The child in question worked out at West before Sectionals his Sophomore year because his team didn't have many wrestlers and his head coach used to be an assistant there. Following a workout, he was approached by Reiland and was told they'd love to have him on the squad there. He came home and replayed the entire conversation to me, and I didn't find anything inappropriate about it whatsoever. I met Reiland a short while later, and he said nothing but great things about the child. He made a comment along the lines of wishing he had this kid in his lineup because he was really, really good and they had a bit of a hole at his weight. This child spent a lot of time over the next year or so working out with several of the West and U of I wrestlers and Reiland, and he was never pressured into making a change. I often asked him about being recruited when he'd come home and tell me about things Reiland had said to him or about him, but he never told me anything that felt like he was actually being recruited to transfer there.