Trust me, Adam, I know exactly what you mean. The problem is that kids at that age have minds of their own. My son (6' 2.5" 250 lbs) had the potential to have his college paid for. He's athletic and would have made a great offensive lineman (low level D-I/D-II) and on many occasions I tried to convince him of that. But his heart wasn't in it. Same with my daughter. One of the tallest girls in her class and when she played basketball she was tenacious on defense and one of the best rebounders on her team. Again .. her heart wasn't in it.
All I'm saying is that if Connor's heart isn't in playing basketball, regardless of dad and brother, he's not going to be an asset. I hope I'm wrong and will be the first to admit I am, but it's possible it's not in the cards. Again, from what I've read, his favorite sport, ergo his sport of choice, is baseball. I'm not saying he's not a great basketball player because he obviously is. But from what I've read, all things being equal, he'd rather play baseball.
Just my $.02 .. .. GO HAWKS!!!