You guys are too sensitive, you know
I prefer those people who fill in the "dead spaces" of a conversation with blank stares, like Harbaugh, Ron Artest, my wife...are you aware I am talking to you? Could you at least blink?
Public speaking is not a natural deal. I'd say very few people have the ability to seem comfortable and are able to basically wing it and sound completely at ease. How many rock stars have stated they had to be wasted to get up and perform in front of crowds.