...it's people who shrug their shoulders who are the problem.
Agree. And I'm a shoulder shrugger.
The difference is that I firmly believe that even if I didn't shrug my shoulders, there aren't enough others who will do the same to make a difference. It would take the entire populace to do that, and our military, and our police, and our elected officials. I believe the chances of it happening at a large enough scale to change anything are smaller than the lottery.
Dwelling on that causes anger, sadness, melancholy, you name it. Energy spent being negative and angry. So I don't dwell on it and let something I as an individual can't change bring me down, because there are lots of things individually I can do to make my own world better and people close to me better. You can believe me or not and take this however you want, but once a week I go up to our nursing home in town and play cribbage with two old guys who don't get visitors. I'm not going to paint myself as some morally superior guy who said, "You know what, I bet there's lonely people who live there and would like company so I'm going to go sit with them to make their day better." The way it happened was my uncle used to be there and his roommate was a nice old dude but had no family. When I visited my uncle I started inviting him to play with us. This uncle of mine isn't there anymore, but they had so much fun I kept stopping up and now there's one other person who plays too. I bring 'em Hardees breakfast biscuits and the one guy likes Arizona tea so I grab one of those for 99 cents. They're older than the hills, some grease and cholesterol ain't gonna make a difference at this point.
Again, nothing I'm doing is because I'm Mother Teresa. It's like $5 a week and about 90 minutes, and I like playing cribbage. I am not a superior example of morality, and if it was a pain in the ass I'm not gonna lie to you and say that I'm sure I'd still do it. I do it because I could sit around and get pissed off about Trump and Biden and RFK and AOC and get angry and spend $75 on gas and a full day of PTO driving to Minneapolis for a no kings rally, and post on internet forums to people who aren't going to change their votes anyway, but what good would that fucking do? None. Zero. It would literally affect no one and nothing other than giving me some warm and fuzzies. Zero change to the outcome. Maybe the warm and fuzzies are worth it to you to get that anger out, I don't know. I do know there aren't enough people out there willing to do extreme things to affect change no matter how much I wish and hope there were. Prove me wrong if so. I know there are enough people
out there, but prove to me that we can somehow get them to participate at a level high enough to affect change on something like this war. You can't because there's 75 years of history of people not participating.
I go sit and play cards with a couple guys who have maybe a year or two left above ground, and they get to laugh, I get to laugh, and maybe they don't sit there depressed and staring out the window. Maybe it makes the rest of the week easier if they know they get a visitor again in a few days, maybe not. I get something out of it too. Maybe you do things that make you and others feel good too. But you'd have more energy to do more of it, and you'd probably be happier if you truly let it go. Because unless you're willing to martyr yourself, whatever you're doing thinking you can change Trump's actions isn't enough.
That's what I'm gonna keep doing. I can't control anything else so I do little shit that's actually worth my time.
Lastly, I think your viewpoint is clouded because of how insane you think the current administration is. I'm not saying you're wrong, but you're clouded and biased by your anger and lack of being able to rationalize what they're doing. I say that because for every one democrat such as yourself who thinks the opposition is insane and irrational and immoral and wrong...there is also one offsetting person on the other side who thinks you are just as insane. Your votes cancel each other out. What we're left with is a yo-yo effect that bounces back and forth every 4-8 years and no one gets anywhere. Maybe the answer is to be a moderate in the middle rather than extreme left like you or extreme right like some others on the board? You're a man of science apparently, you should know that in the end the bell curve always wins, and you and the far right constantly fighting over the pendulum keeps it from ever settling in the middle, where each side has at least 50% of what they want. But 50/50 isn't good enough for you...you want 90%, all of the time. That don't work, Jack.
If you object to my assumption about your willingness to compromise, list for me 5 MAGA agendas that you'd concede in return for 5 leftist agendas to be enacted...I'll wait.
You can fight that bell curve, but you're only going to cause it to swing your way temporarily and then it's going to swing back, and then back to you, and so on. Chaos, so to speak. If you disagree prove me wrong with a lasting example over the long run in politics. You talk about the other side being the problem, but yet you will give no meaningful concession the other way. You complain about the state of politics, but you're in a Mexican standoff with the other side and too proud to put your gun down because you're afraid the other side won't put theirs down. And so is the other side. You're just as much a cause of the chaos as MAGA because you think everything negative is their fault, they think everything negative is your fault, and so it goes ad nauseum until implosion.
I'm gonna go play cards and laugh a bunch tomorrow morning. When I get done, 3 people's days will probably have gotten better. How many people's days did I improve spending 10 minute typing this? Or a 12 hour day at a no kings rally or an anti immigration rally. Be honest and don't tell me it was worth it because by me showing up at a rally or casting a vote I improved the odds by 0.00005823%.
Be honest.