I dunno, man, you spent four paragraphs and some time chiding me. Maybe you need to take a breath. I feel quite tranquil.I'm not a partisan, nor am I rabidly for or against this war. I do see both sides regardless of who the leaders of the countries are or what their true unadvertised intent may be. I'm not going to discuss my opinion on it, nor is there any thing anyone here could say to sway or influence my opinion. So in that respect if anyone wants to tell me their views and why I should lean that way, I could not care less and said person can save the oxygen spent typing it out.
Now with that outta the way, if you're 100% honest, is your energy best spent being angry and ranting and raving about shit a bunch of old rich men with no connection to reality are doing, especially when none of the energy you're spending can do a single thing about it? Or is your energy better spent talking a walk through the park and looking at the trees, going to see your kids or grandkids, or appreciating the fact that you don't have cancer or some other terminal disease, or going and sitting with someone in a nursing home for a couple hours? Maybe if everyone did that there wouldn't be fighting going on.
You may think you can have some sort of influence over what a President or Ayatollah or Prime Minister does by yelling loud enough or voting or emailing your local congressperson, but you don't. They're going to do what they're going to do and we're along for the ride. Political activism is a total farce unless you're a billionaire and I'm guessing you aren't.
Take a breath. Call your mom and tell her you love her, and then tell her, "Man, I'm glad I get to call and talk to you instead of living in Iran or wherever. How bout if us and the kids come over and bring you supper?" Pick your kids up from school and talk to them about their day. Control what you can control and don't waste your energy on shit like this. Appreciate your current state because maybe in a couple years you'll be dead or a war might happen here. Either way you have no say in it and all our clocks are tickin'.
My mom is dead. I help people for a living. I'm fine, and I definitely focus on what I can control. I write a couple of sentences on a message board and I get some advice from a random guy in NW Iowa that I don't know at all. Maybe don't get too personal, chief.I'm not a partisan, nor am I rabidly for or against this war. I do see both sides regardless of who the leaders of the countries are or what their true unadvertised intent may be. I'm not going to discuss my opinion on it, nor is there any thing anyone here could say to sway or influence my opinion. So in that respect if anyone wants to tell me their views and why I should lean that way, I could not care less and said person can save the oxygen spent typing it out.
Now with that outta the way, if you're 100% honest, is your energy best spent being angry and ranting and raving about shit a bunch of old rich men with no connection to reality are doing, especially when none of the energy you're spending can do a single thing about it? Or is your energy better spent talking a walk through the park and looking at the trees, going to see your kids or grandkids, or appreciating the fact that you don't have cancer or some other terminal disease, or going and sitting with someone in a nursing home for a couple hours? Maybe if everyone did that there wouldn't be fighting going on.
You may think you can have some sort of influence over what a President or Ayatollah or Prime Minister does by yelling loud enough or voting or emailing your local congressperson, but you don't. They're going to do what they're going to do and we're along for the ride. Political activism is a total farce unless you're a billionaire and I'm guessing you aren't.
Take a breath. Call your mom and tell her you love her, and then tell her, "Man, I'm glad I get to call and talk to you instead of living in Iran or wherever. How bout if us and the kids come over and bring you supper?" Pick your kids up from school and talk to them about their day. Control what you can control and don't waste your energy on shit like this. Appreciate your current state because maybe in a couple years you'll be dead or a war might happen here. Either way you have no say in it and all our clocks are tickin'.
You feel quite tranquil?I dunno, man, you spent four paragraphs and some time chiding me. Maybe you need to take a breath. I feel quite tranquil.
Mine too.My mom is dead.
Good for you, I guess?I help people for a living.
Zero chance you're getting banned. I don't operate that way. This isn't my website and I don't get paid.I will write what I wish relevant to this war and politics. If you don't like it, get butthurt and ban me.
Not married by mutual choice, but yes. Unless you require marriage to be a partnership qualification. You said once you're from California, so I'm deducing that you probably don't.I have a wonderful, beautiful wife (do you?).
I have a 19 year old who loves his job and makes a bunch of money too. Called me the other day and without me asking said he loves going to work everyday. He's an HVAC tech which is well beneath the value of your engineer and lawyer. You sound like the type who values status above anything which is puke-worthy to me, but who am I to judge? You apparently surround yourself with like minded people because you haven't figured out that parents who first mention their kids' jobs before anything else are the absolute worst....grown successful kids (lawyer and engineer)...
I'm very happy. I can't take my own advice because I don't waste my time and energy being mad about things I can't control. Just your response alone shows you're a super angry person. Doesn't have to be that way.Maybe you should take your advice.
I'm not a partisan, nor am I rabidly for or against this war. I do see both sides regardless of who the leaders of the countries are or what their true unadvertised intent may be. I'm not going to discuss my opinion on it, nor is there any thing anyone here could say to sway or influence my opinion. So in that respect if anyone wants to tell me their views and why I should lean that way, I could not care less and said person can save the oxygen spent typing it out.
Now with that outta the way, if you're 100% honest, is your energy best spent being angry and ranting and raving about shit a bunch of old rich men with no connection to reality are doing, especially when none of the energy you're spending can do a single thing about it? Or is your energy better spent talking a walk through the park and looking at the trees, going to see your kids or grandkids, or appreciating the fact that you don't have cancer or some other terminal disease, or going and sitting with someone in a nursing home for a couple hours? Maybe if everyone did that there wouldn't be fighting going on.
You may think you can have some sort of influence over what a President or Ayatollah or Prime Minister does by yelling loud enough or voting or emailing your local congressperson, but you don't. They're going to do what they're going to do and we're along for the ride. Political activism is a total farce unless you're a billionaire and I'm guessing you aren't.
Take a breath. Call your mom and tell her you love her, and then tell her, "Man, I'm glad I get to call and talk to you instead of living in Iran or wherever. How bout if us and the kids come over and bring you supper?" Pick your kids up from school and talk to them about their day. Control what you can control and don't waste your energy on shit like this. Appreciate your current state because maybe in a couple years you'll be dead or a war might happen here. Either way you have no say in it and all our clocks are tickin'.
A few thoughts......civic engagement more broadly is not, whether that is by protesting or contacting your local representative. These means of action take forever to have an impact, but I believe they do matter. Look at what civic engagement in the Twin Cities has done to move public opinion and influence administration policies
I think we will see short term (2026) bad results. But love or hate the president he's made the US the foremost super power, even if every other country hates us. That will provide both good and bad long term results. I do agree that this makes Israel stronger as other Middle East countries afraid to mess with them. And maybe an unintended positive is based on Iran's attack everyone approach has led to some more support in the region for Israel.I think it is pretty clear, big losers so far in this war:
Iran
other Gulf states whose economies and securities have been massively disrupted
Big winners so far...
Probably Israel as they are securing hegemony in the Middle East, though we will have to see how far-ranging the ramifications are. There is a good chance they are radicalizing a whole new generation of Islamic terrorists.
Russia and China. Their main geopolitical competition is getting involved in a potential quagmire, rapidly depleting their munitions, and hastening the destruction of the rules-based international order which has fought to constrain authoritarian regimes for the past 80 years. Russia is also reaping huge economic benefit as their oil sanctions are being lifted just as the price of oil is sky-rocketing. China has to feel emboldened to potentially move against Taiwan in the near future...hard for the US to mount a principled argument against such a move, and our military is spread thin and depleted. On the flip side, China has invested heavily in the Mid East and is currently seeing many of its investments go up in smoke.
How does the US come out of this? Who knows. Ezra Klein's latest podcast is an interview with a former Trump Deputy National Security director, and she makes an argument for the necessity of the war (with pushback from Klein). His episode before that, he interviewed a member of Obama's national security team, who takes a more negative view of developments. I would recommend checking out both:
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The Ezra Klein Show
Real conversations. Ideas that matter. So many book recommendations.www.nytimes.com
We have an awful lot of history telling us this is likely to end badly, or at least unsatisfactorily. Whatever you think of this administration, long-term planning certainly doesn't seem to be one of their strengths. On the flip side, the former Trump NS advisor makes some good arguments about how the international order was broken and unable to respond to emerging crises, and I have enough humility with regard to my understanding of these situations to be open to the idea that Trump's disregard for how things HAVE BEEN DONE and his unique tolerance for risk taking could have some benefits.
We will see. I will hope and pray for our troops. I am not especially confident this ends well in the Middle East, and I have an emerging anxiety about what it means regarding broader international conflict.
A few thoughts...
I think the definition of useful/useless needs to be established. If you're defining usefulness as getting your viewpoint across to other people, or getting things off your chest, or feeling better by venting, maybe you have something there. But if we're defining usefulness as affecting the outcome of something, I still hold this as useless and even counterproductive. Counterproductive because it's energy spent being negative that you could have spent doing something that benefits yourself or someone else close to you.
On a small scale ranting and raving can make some difference. If you're town is planning on tearing out a nature area to put up a golf course you can get something started and have a small chance of organizing enough people to make a difference. But with something the scale of the United States government, being pissed off and yelling like @Westernhawk is 100% in an echo chamber. Anyone thinking they can make a difference is lying to themselves, and they just love to hear themselves bitch and insult people on the other side. Nothing more. If it makes them feel better mentally to get red-faced and scream/type insults about politician XYZ whichever side they're on, knock yourself out. News flash...everyone already knows politicians are all pieces of shit...screaming about it doesn't make it more so...
We do not live in a place where democracy rules, period. We live in an oligarchy which is nothing more than a competition between the two parties' billionaires for congressional votes. I could organize a 50 million person march right this very minute against the Iran war and drop it right on Pennsylvania Avenue, and it wouldn't have an iota influence on what Trump and his cabinet will do. Same thing if I did that during Obama's presidency if I was against the ACA. People love to think they have a say in politics in this country but they don't. Voting is a feel-good farce. Sure voting works to get the majorities/minorities shuffled around once a decade or so, but anything you do now is just going to get changed back again in 4 years when it flipflops. That's the way it's worked since the mid 80s. It's too partisan. The decisions politicians make (almost all of them are millionaires and billionaires even before you consider lobbying groups) are based on party line. They aren't based on their personal convictions. If you don't believe that's true, I don't know what else I can say. Sure there maybe be a handful of five or six Congresspeople out there who stick to their convictions and vote according to what they think is right, but tell me a single instance where those types have been able to sway the course of politics in this country at all in the past 60 years...
All of this is why I think it's a stupid waste of time. Not stupid because the issues are stupid, or stupid because I don't care what happens to this country, because I do. It's stupid because we all have a very quickly ticking clock on this earth which speeds up massively the older you get. So am I going to spend a single minute of my time getting mad because we're bombing Iran, or because of what I think we should be doing about immigration, or because my tax dollars go to wellfare, or because I have to pay for health insurance when people who don't work, don't? Nope. Because I am SUPREMELY lucky to not have cancer right now, I can walk/talk/eat/breathe, I have people close to me that I love and get to see or talk to every day, my house is still standing, etc. I focus on that shit. Because absolutely nothing I do big or small is going to change what Donald Trump or the next president or the next is going to do. I need to enjoy life and my family before I either get sick and die in 20 years or World War 3 starts. I can't really change any of it.
One thing this war is showing the entire world is that the US has more military capabilities, resources, technology, and (pertinent) weapons than the rest of the world's militaries combined and even it can't keep a little 30 mile wide, shallow waterway open.
That's not a good omen in the broader long-term picture.
few thoughts...
I think the definition of useful/useless needs to be established. If you're defining usefulness as getting your viewpoint across to other people, or getting things off your chest, or feeling better by venting, maybe you have something there. But if we're defining usefulness as affecting the outcome of something, I still hold this as useless and even counterproductive. Counterproductive because it's energy spent being negative that you could have spent doing something that benefits yourself or someone else close to you.
On a small scale ranting and raving can make some difference. If you're town is planning on tearing out a nature area to put up a golf course you can get something started and have a small chance of organizing enough people to make a difference. But with something the scale of the United States government, being pissed off and yelling like @Westernhawk is 100% in an echo chamber. Anyone thinking they can make a difference is lying to themselves, and they just love to hear themselves bitch and insult people on the other side. Nothing more. If it makes them feel better mentally to get red-faced and scream/type insults about politician XYZ whichever side they're on, knock yourself out. News flash...everyone already knows politicians are all pieces of shit...screaming about it doesn't make it more so...
We do not live in a place where democracy rules, period. We live in an oligarchy which is nothing more than a competition between the two parties' billionaires for congressional votes. I could organize a 50 million person march right this very minute against the Iran war and drop it right on Pennsylvania Avenue, and it wouldn't have an iota influence on what Trump and his cabinet will do. Same thing if I did that during Obama's presidency if I was against the ACA. People love to think they have a say in politics in this country but they don't. Voting is a feel-good farce. Sure voting works to get the majorities/minorities shuffled around once a decade or so, but anything you do now is just going to get changed back again in 4 years when it flipflops. That's the way it's worked since the mid 80s. It's too partisan. The decisions politicians make (almost all of them are millionaires and billionaires even before you consider lobbying groups) are based on party line. They aren't based on their personal convictions. If you don't believe that's true, I don't know what else I can say. Sure there maybe be a handful of five or six Congresspeople out there who stick to their convictions and vote according to what they think is right, but tell me a single instance where those types have been able to sway the course of politics in this country at all in the past 60 years...
All of this is why I think it's a stupid waste of time. Not stupid because the issues are stupid, or stupid because I don't care what happens to this country, because I do. It's stupid because we all have a very quickly ticking clock on this earth which speeds up massively the older you get. So am I going to spend a single minute of my time getting mad because we're bombing Iran, or because of what I think we should be doing about immigration, or because my tax dollars go to wellfare, or because I have to pay for health insurance when people who don't work, don't? Nope. Because I am SUPREMELY lucky to not have cancer right now, I can walk/talk/eat/breathe, I have people close to me that I love and get to see or talk to every day, my house is still standing, etc. I focus on that shit. Because absolutely nothing I do big or small is going to change what Donald Trump or the next president or the next is going to do. I need to enjoy life and my family before I either get sick and die in 20 years or World War 3 starts. I can't really change any of it.